Mediation or Litigation – Which Process Is Right for You?

People are often disappointed after choosing to litigate their divorces. What they thought would be a forum to air their grievances with their spouse may turn out to be a high-pressure, high-cost ordeal that lasts half a decade. In this article, I present two options — a non-fiction Choose Your Own Path if you will. … Continue reading Mediation or Litigation – Which Process Is Right for You?

Prenuptial Agreements — What Are They and Do I Need One?

Prenuptial agreements are versatile tools that can provide reassurance and guidance for the couples who take advantage of them. That said, there remain many misconceptions about what a prenup can and cannot do — so I thought I would take some time to demystify the process in this post. What Is a Prenuptial Agreement? A … Continue reading Prenuptial Agreements — What Are They and Do I Need One?

Divorce and Significant Others

Any person who has been through a divorce will tell you that the topic of introducing a significant other to the children is a sticky one at best. Even people involved in the most amicable of divorces struggle with this. So, the question is, how do divorcing parents navigate this difficult topic? Here are a … Continue reading Divorce and Significant Others

Recalculating Child Support

One of the issues to be decided in mediation is how frequently child support will be recalculated. In New York, child support is calculated pursuant to the Child Support Standards Act (CSSA). In calculating child support, the CSSA looks at the gross income of the parties, minus standard deductions such as FICA, and then calculates … Continue reading Recalculating Child Support

Understanding the Amygdala Hijack in Mediation

When a couple decides to end their marriage, there will be many stressful moments to come — sometimes those moments reach levels of epic proportions. In a high-stress argument, the heart starts pounding and muscles tense up, sometimes unconsciously. You may even start to perspire and feel like you are losing your composure. This effect … Continue reading Understanding the Amygdala Hijack in Mediation